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Thoughts on Polyamory or open Relationships?

Guest Naiwen

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Guest Naiwen
Well, it's my personal and most humble opinion that aside from the possibility to contract many STDs with multiple partners, it's immoral and unethical. I've had a few ex-friends who were in an open relationship and have been wanting me to accept it. I won't compromise my self-respect, dignity and integrity by stooping myself to their level. I don't know why they can't be satisfied with 1 unique life partner. Why do you have to be with multiple partners at once? It's hard for me to fathom and understand how they manage the jealousy, drama, fights and conflicts with multiple partners in an open relationship. I don't like this idea at all. How do you feel about this yourself? I feel strongly against it because it's highly immoral, unethical and disrespectful for me personally. But, what about you personally? Would you be in a open relationship or marriage? with several partners at once?
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The only thing that i respect from that kind of people is that they're honest enough to say that they can't stop cheating their couples and they want something "open" just to cover that issue so they can stick to their policy.


Myself, i won't ever do that because as like you, i wish to build something heatlhy that propulses my self-esteem (knowing that my couple is hanging around with someone else besides me won't help).


I want to preserve my dignity as well. But as long as the people involved in those open relationships or whatever, they're free to do it.



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In my opinion this is one of the worst sins you can commit to have multiple wives... etc


God tends to look down and smite those who treat marriage outside of a unity through Christ. I'm not hear to preach but wanted to add my 2 cents. And that would be the fact that God does not appreciate it therefore I am against it. Even outside of marriage I do not agree. You should be faithful to your partner.

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